Saturday, June 6, 2009

Man's Stages of Falling In Love

Initial Infatuation

How he'll act: He might be self-conscious and stumble over his words, or he'll do the opposite - talk himself up in an attempt to impress you.

Body language to look for: A confident guy may come up with excuses to touch you. However, if he's less sure of himself, he might be concerned with his physical appearance. You may notice nervous preening behavior like running a hand through his hair or licking his lips.

Falling Hard

How he'll act: In this stage, a guy will begin bringing you into his world by including you in many of his activities, whether it's jogging or watching a game on TV. He may also choose time with you over guys' nights or trips to the gym.

Body language to look for: In addition to staring deeply into your eyes (yes, it's cliche but also a clue), there will be an increase in sweet touching, like his gently stroking your cheek or brushing hair out of your eyes.

Head Over Heels

How he'll act: You may think the hottest erotic action occurs in the first flush of romance, but it gets better once a man falls in love. He becomes so consumed with his feelings for you.

Body language to look for: Public displays of affection - like hand-holding may dip. He craves more of an emotional connection, so it may seem like he's more chatty but less touchy-feely.

Ready To Commit

How he'll act: If a man sees a future with you, he'll make you feel like the two of you are a team. He'll ask for your opinion on important decisions. The only bummer is, he may not be as open as he once was because in his mind, he's shared everything with you already.

Body language to look for: Mirroring your gestures and behaviors is a clue he's thinking long-term. The bond is so strong, he may subconsciously match your own movements. If you tilt your head to the right, he'll tilt his to the left; if you put a hand in your back pocket or in your lap, he might do the same.


  1. I like this topic although its content is merely for men/boys but we, women also act that way. I read a little bit of the book, Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Its really a good book. You will get a lot of information their that help us understand the differences between man and a woman. Way to go! Keep it up. By the way thank you for visiting my blog. See there again!

  2. All true!
    Inspiring how you write :)